The Power of Words
- September 24, 2008
- By Brian
JD Grear wrote a post recently that I thought was worthy of passing on. It’s on a topic that we rarely discuss - how we encourage others with our words. Grear is a pastor who, like everyone, gets discouraged at times. And he found that what really helped was when people gave him some encouragement. I know it sounds obvious, but it seems like something we don’t do as often as we should. Give it a read after checking out some quotes below:
It is easy, you see, for us to “assume the strengths” in others and to “notice the weakness.” We can even write off our pointing out their faults as being “helpful” to them, or not pointing out their strengths as an attempt to guard their pride. Bull. Such an attitude shows little to no awareness of the human condition, or how God works. I believe we should reverse that. We should assume others’ weaknesses and notice their strengths.
One of my favorite theologians on this was Martin Luther. Luther said that God’s way was to redefine reality with WORDS. God looked into chaos and spoke the hopeful, power-infusing words of creation. He looked into the chaos of our sin and declared us righteous in His Son. By speaking those words (coupled with our belief in them), He reconstituted our reality. You see, if He had declared us lost He would have spoken truth, but He spoke an even greater truth by recreating us with His words.

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It is not so coincidental that these words were an encouragement to me. I have seen this illustrated so vibrantly in my relationship with Nicole. Saying mean or insensitive things can tear down a relationship, while oppositely saying encouraging (honest) things has been the agent for some of the most intimate moments in our relationship. What a good God that we have who communicates with His people, and allows us to communicate with Him and with people as well!
Seriously, words are a big deal. They really do encourage people and spur them on to a deeper love for God (and good works, also!). I love being encouraged. May we do it often.