My wife, and now Matt Kleinhans, have taken to giving me tiny calendars with a different church sign for every day of the week. Some of them are corny, some of them are heretical, and every once in a while you find some encouragement. Each week I’ll grab something special from one of those categories and share it with you. Occasionally, I’ll make some comments.
Today’s comes from Wednesday, March 18:
If you think meek is weak, try being meek for a week.
Even though this one makes me cringe a bit (”How much wood would a woodchuck chuck….”), the message is one I need to hear. The world defines strength and weakness completely backwards. And there are times I buy into it.
Most of us have been raised with the understanding that strength equals taking charge. The strong man or woman bends life to his or her will. When they want something, they fight for it, and they succeed. When life (or someone else) comes at them hard, they stand their ground and fight for what they want. That’s the story of every hero we’ve ever wanted to be, and it’s the image a lot of us really wish we looked like. We want to be strong.
But that picture of strength is only something you get when you look at it with human eyes. When God looks down, he doesn’t see a strong, mature, man or woman who is a force to be reckoned with. He sees a little child who makes a lot of noise when things don’t happen the way they’d like. The kind of kid that pushes other kids out of the way to get the toy he wants. That little girl that refuses to brush her teeth because she just doesn’t want to, and will stand her ground for her cause. That’s what our version of “strength” looks like to God - because our version of strength is all about fighting for what we want, when we want it.
No one tells a toddler that his tantrums are great shows of strength. He’s fighting a losing battle - losing because, no matter how loud he yells, he’s not going to get his way in the long run, and losing because he’s fighting against parents who know better and are looking out for his best interest. He’s whiny and immature, not strong. It’s not hard to act that way as an adult - do you want your dreams to come true? Take charge, and don’t take no for an answer. Don’t want to get hurt? Do whatever it takes to be the one in control of the situation. Don’t like your circumstances? Wrestle control from anyone else (”you just need to stand up for yourself“) and, if you can’t get it, protest the fact that you deserve your “rights.” Just because you do whatever you want even when it’s hard doesn’t mean you’re strong.
Jesus says the meek will inherit the earth. And that’s a promise that they need, because meek people definitely aren’t in control now. Being meek requires that you give up control of your life. Instead of standing up for your rights, you give up your rights. You serve others, even when they take advantage of you. You love people, even when they end up being your enemies. You get walked all over.
Trust me, it’s easier to rage against that than to embrace it as part of God’s will. It takes a lot more strength to submit to God than to grab for your own control.
That’s why I like this cheesy sign. It’s not really about me. It reminds me that I’ve got a Savior who gave me more grace than I can imagine, all by being “weak,” and in his meekness submitting always to His Father, even unto death on a cross. There’s more strength in that kind of submission than any power on this earth, above it, or below it. And now, I’m called to use that same kind of strength to be meek like Jesus:
Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. 5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. -Philippians 2:3-11 (1 Peter 2 is also really, really good)